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Nicole Kidman’s daughters just go with their mom’s daily rituals.
After all, the Just Go With It actress—who shares kids Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 15, with ex-husband Keith Urban—revealed her daughters must hug her for two minutes every day.
“Both my daughters will kill me for saying this,” Nicole told Hoda Kotb at the live speaker series HISTORYTalks in Philadelphia, Penn., April 18, per People, “but I’m like, ‘You need to hug [me] for two minutes a day.’”
“It releases certain chemicals in the body,” she added, “and everyone needs to be hugged for about two minutes a day.”
Noting that she finds parenting teenagers “extraordinary,” the Big Little Lies star shared that she and her girls are “so close, the three of us, we talk about everything.”
“It means sitting on the end of their bed, when they say, ‘Come in here, sit down,’” she added. “And you go in, and you’re exhausted, and you sit down and you listen. And I always say, ‘Do you want me to give you advice now, or are you just sort of venting?’”
Usually, her teens just need a listening ear.
“Primarily, I get told no advice,” the 58-year-old explained with a laugh, “90 percent of the time.”
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Nicole—also mom to kids Bella, 33, and Connor, 31, with ex-husband Tom Cruise—also shared that her approach to motherhood came through teachings from her own mom Janelle Ann Kidman.
As for what lessons Janelle—who died in 2024—passed down to the Bewitched star?
“[My mother] told me, ‘Don’t ever let anyone break your spirit,’” Nicole said. “She came from an era where she wasn’t able to [have] the career path she would have loved.”
“She raised us, she supported my father, she helped him get his PhD,” she added, “[and] she didn’t get hers…and she was exceptionally smart.”
In fact, it was Janelle who convinced Nicole—who finalized her divorce from Keith in January—to stay in showbiz after she considered retiring from acting in 2008.
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“I’d moved to Nashville,” Nicole explained. “I was pregnant. I had my daughter [Sunday Rose], and I was going to retire.”
“My mother was like…‘I wouldn’t completely give up,’” she recalled. “‘You’ve been doing this since you were little. It’s your make up.’ And thank God she said that.”
Nicole’s parents also taught her to stand up for others, which was “the greatest gift” the Babygirl star could have asked for.
“I think growing up in a family that was very much committed to social justice and caring for other people,” she said, “I think that’s penetrated, hopefully, my daughters.”
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