Watch: Jason Sudeikis Shares Lesson Learned From Olivia Wilde Breakup in Rare Comments
Olivia Wilde is extending an invite into her family dynamic.
Six years after the Don’t Worry Darling star’s breakup with Jason Sudeikis, she shared rare comments about their coparenting relationship as they raise their kids Otis, 12, and Daisy, 10.
“I really take pride in how good we are at coparenting our kids in my family,” Wilde shared on the Nov. 14 episode of the New York Times’ The Interview podcast. “We have reached this healthy equilibrium.”
Yet, she admitted that achieving this dynamic can be difficult.
“It’s so hard,” the Invite director continued. “Anyone who pretends it’s easy—like, ‘Oh, you just consciously uncouple, and then you find a way’—that’s bulls–t.”
And Wilde emphasized that she and Sudeikis make a point to always be honest with their kids.
“I feel relieved that I’m able to give them a life with parents where there’s a real sense of authenticity in terms of how everyone’s feeling and doing,” she explained. “What happens is when you’re trying to hide [interpersonal conflict] from your kids, they sense it. They’re the most intuitive people in the house.”
“People start to feel this sense of like, ‘What is real? ‘Cause I can tell that something’s being performed for me, but I can sense it’s not real,’” the 42-year-old added. “And that I wouldn’t wish on anyone.”
And though Wilde and Sudeikis—who called off their engagement in 2020 after nearly 10 years together—didn’t work out as a couple, the House alum stressed that it was ultimately the best decision for their kids.
“It feels like a failure when you can’t make a relationship work,” Wilde admitted, “particularly if it’s with the person you have children with.”
The I Want Your Sex star added that the breakup was “by far the most difficult, painful decision I’ve ever made in my life—to understand that it was not better for my kids to live in a house where their parents were not aligned.”
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But despite Wilde and Sudeikis’ busy careers, the former pair always make showing up for their children their priority.
“I’m really grateful for the opportunity to have this space with my kids when I am completely with my kids, completely engaged with them,” Wilde shared during a June appearance on the Call Her Daddy podcast. “I really value the opportunity to be completely present with them and then to hand them off to a very capable coparent who is very present with them when he’s with them and then I have this space which is permission to go work my f–king ass off.”
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