Watch: Kendra Wilkinson Tearfully Admits to “Struggle” in Real Estate Career After Client Fires Her
These days, Kendra Wilkinson aspires to help others become the girls (or boys) next door.
Nearly two decades after moving out of the 29-room Playboy Mansion—and away from her “heavenly” life with the late Hugh Hefner—The Girls Next Door alum is still quite at home in some of Los Angeles’ most impressive properties, signing with Mauricio Umansky‘s luxury real estate brokerage The Agency.
But while the Kendra Sells Hollywood alum’s career has been hopping along since she earned her real estate license in June 2020, there are still plenty of days when she feels others are selling her short.
“I’m struggling today guys,” the former Playboy Bunny admitted to her three million followers in a July 26 Instagram Stories post. Having been fired by a client, “It’s hard right now,” added Wilkinson, mom to son Hank IV, 16, and daughter Alijah, 12, with ex-husband Hank Baskett. “I feel I’m doing everything right in my life. I’m raising my kids. I’m putting them first.”
There are just days when prospective clients simply aren’t buying what she’s selling.
“It’s just such a struggle right now finding people to work with me, getting fired, people being rude and mean,” the 41-year-old detailed. “It’s taking a toll.”
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That’s not to say she’s taking herself off the market.
In the decade-plus since she was a fixture on Hefner’s arm, she’s enjoyed her share of wins.
In fact, if she were to appraise her current life as a working mom, she detailed in a March Instagram selfie, “I’m happier than I’ve ever been lately.”
Which means, yes, she’s “seen many people comment saying I’ve aged ‘poorly,'” and she’s responding with even more filter-free snaps. “I’m not going to tie my happiness again into the negative energy. I am a balanced, single, positive, fun woman who loves life and i hope that i can manage this feeling forever now after working hard to get here to this place.”
Though, she’s also a gal on a budget, so when she realized her collection of size-6 jeans had been relegated to a back shelf, she decided to give GLP-1 medication another shot.
“I’m happy,” she insisted in a March interview with Us Weekly. “I’m at peace, but I noticed that my jeans are a little tighter lately, so I don’t want to go out and shop anymore.”
Though, when it comes to one major expense, her eldest is providing quite the assist.
A standout point guard, 16-year-old Hank has already received college offers from Alabama State University and Idaho State University, she revealed in a July 17 Instagram post. “I’ve witnessed how hard he works everyday.”
His younger sis has also gotten in the game, with Wilkinson raving after an April tourney with her mini-me, “These are the golden years!!!”
In fact, she’d say her kids are her biggest win thus far, telling E! News in 2024, “They are thriving.”
Nothing at all like she was as a teen “thank God!” joked Wilkinson, “my kids are good kids. They’re just making my life good, fun, exciting, loving.”
And though she’s been single since her complex split from Baskett (years before their divorce, the former NFL wide receiver, 43, denied reports that he cheated with a transgender woman), she’s not exactly in the market for a new teammate.
“My DMs are filled with dudes,” she shared with E! in 2023. “It’s so annoying.” Because while she’d be happy to take a meeting with a prospective seller, “I don’t think dating is in my near future,” said Wilkinson. “If it’s not a listing, I don’t want it.”
And while she and Baskett are “co-parenting so good,” Wilkinson shared with E! in 2023, she won’t be shielding their children from the messier parts of her romantic past.
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“I’m able to tell the kids what mom has been through, not hide anything,” she explained to E! News at the November 2024 American Reality Television Awards, “show them that you can be okay through anything and everything, and you can work your way past anything in the world.”
Whether it’s her 2018 divorce or her decision to move in with Hefner at 18 and “have sex for money,” as she put it during a 2025 appearance on the Skinny Confidential podcast, Wilkinson is open to sharing each high and low with her kids.
“If they want to know something, they ask and I tell them,” she stressed to E!. “We just have a very open communication, relationship, and they appreciate that so much.”
Because in her fifth decade, she’s thriving in her DGAF era.
A return to reality TV isn’t out of the question, the Kendra on Top alum told E! News in 2024, “It just has to be the right concept.” But, make no mistake, she’s not the same girl who stepped into Hefner’s Gothic-Tudor estate.
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“I have overcome so much in life and deserve to celebrate myself and my new attitude towards life,” Wilkinson, who sought out therapy after a depression-induced 2023 panic attack landed her in the hospital, shared in a 2025 Instagram post. “Playboy days are long gone and it feels more and more liberating for some reason. Not because I don’t appreciate my time there but because now I feel older and more free more than I did when I left the mansion.”
With fewer “f–ks to give,” she continued, “It feels good to finally LIVE with less depression.”
More the girl next door than she ever was in her twenties, “I was verrrry young when i started tv,” she wrote in a March post, “and lived a crazy chaotic 20 years of impressing others but now it’s about ME. Giving back to ME. Even with less money and Way less fame.”
And she’s not the only star buying into the idea of a second act. Check out more celebrities who have pivoted into wildly different careers.
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