Watch: ‘Duck Dynasty’ Star Alan Robertson Forgives Wife Lisa Robertson for Affair
Alan Robertson and LisaRobertson are discussing a difficult time in their lives.
The Duck Dynasty stars detailed how they worked through an affair Lisa had 15 years into their marriage, a chapter of their decades-long relationship that’s chronicledin the upcoming movie Faith & Forgiveness.
“When unfaithfulness happens in a marriage, so many times, that’s the end of it, but it doesn’t have to be,” Alan shared with Fox News Digital in an interview published May 15. “Everything can be worked through.”
Lisa—who married Alan in 1984 and shares daughters Anna and Alex—had an affair with an old boyfriend in the 1990s. And although the couple agreed to a temporary separation when Alan found out, they ultimately reconciled and renewed their vows in 1999.
“I think the reason I was willing to fight for my marriage was that I had made a lot of mistakes on my own,” Alan explained. “When I first met Lisa, she was actually a good girl, who had experienced some hard things in her life up until that point, but really was looking for what she called her ‘knight in shining armor,’ someone to take her hand and lead her out of some things. And I just wasn’t that guy in the early years.”
In fact, the reality star felt that much of his time as a pastor left his wife feeling lonely and isolated while he was away for work.
“To be quite honest with you, I made a huge mistake in not pulling Lisa in as a partner in what we were doing, in my career and my dreams,” the 61-year-old said. “[She] was also dealing with all this internal stuff from when she was young. I just didn’t recognize it. I didn’t see it.”
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And for Lisa, much of the what she was dealing with stemmed from sexual abuse she suffered in childhood.
“From an early age, at age 7, I was subjected to someone molesting me,” she shared with Fox News. “I believe that at age 7, I began to be dishonest with who I was and what I was.”
“The evil one played a huge part in that because he would constantly remind me,” the 60-year-old added. “I started on that trail of dishonesty at that point, and that darkness really began there. As I grew older, it got worse and worse.”
Alan also felt it right to forgive his wife, noting that he had also been unfaithful to her prior to their marriage, yet she was able to forgive him and start a family together.
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“Out of my own appreciation for not only what God had done for me, but also what Lisa had done for me, it gave me that capacity to forgive infidelity,” he explained.“That’s when it all changed. We knew we were going to find our way back together.”
And now, Lisa feels that she and Alan have figured out the secret to making their 42-year marriage work.
“There has to be honesty,” she said. “Honesty is the most important thing that you can do to have a very successful marriage.”
For a look at the sprawling Duck Dynasty family tree, keep reading.
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